Seneca:
“Homeric heroes are driven by the need to maximise their honour.”
You make this sound like a video game where you have an ‘honour meter’ in the top left corner that you need to fill up. I think deep-browed Homer is capable of giving his heroes more than one motivation. You could say that heroes of chivalric romance are driven by the need to maximise their nobility, but we still have Reynard the Fox.
Odysseus seems to me to fulfil the Jungian role of the trickster much better than that of the hero, and the Odyssey sets up a series of challenges which he overcomes through his smarts and charm, flouting normal rules of courageous action (even though he is ‘brave’ when he needs to be). I mentioned Job above - what is the difference between the way they approach their trials? Job is in agony because his fidelity to God is being implicitly questioned by his punishments. Odysseus takes pleasure in overcoming the challenges he’s presented with, because they’re an opportunity to show how clever/skilful/strong he is, even if he does truly want to get home at the end of it.
What raises Odysseus above a Reynard or Br’er Rabbit as a character is this depth of feeling for his family - we really do feel how much he wants to get back to them (and his dog). What is remarkable is the lack of moral sense he displays with respect to everyone else.
Consider another of Odysseus’ ὤ μοι ἐγὼ moments (Il. 11.404-6)
ὤ μοι ἐγὼ τί πάθω; μέγα μὲν κακὸν αἴ κε φέβωμαι
πληθὺν ταρβήσας: τὸ δὲ ῥίγιον αἴ κεν ἁλώω
μοῦνος: τοὺς δ᾽ ἄλλους Δαναοὺς ἐφόβησε Κρονίων
He’s faced with the μέγα κακὸν of being a coward, and has the opportunity to ‘maximise his honour’, but tellingly thinks it is ῥίγιον to stay and fight than to run away. This seems to me typical of Odysseus. He’s happy to let others be the hero, to say “this is the hill I am willing to die on”, but pragmatically has no moral line which he is unwilling to cross to survive.
I don’t judge him for it, and I can’t say I would do any differently - I thought it was a very powerful moment in Peter Jackson’s They Shall Not Grow Old when they talked about how you were considered a coward for dropping in a shell hole in no man’s land, but all of the people being interviewed were alive because they had done exactly that.
For some characters in Homer, an honourable death is the pinnacle of life, but for Odysseus getting one over on others and being lauded for it is the height of achievement. In doing so, he impresses himself. Maybe at another time we could talk about whether Odysseus is ‘hacking’ the shame culture of the Homeric world by tricking others into thinking he’s heroic.
Re θεουδής - I do take it as god-fearing, but then I take god-fearing as meaning pious or godly not ‘fearing god’. Surely something one might aspire to?