At the very least, > people could > weigh what I was saying against their own experience instead of > just casting it off> . Or, is that how it works? I either cite an authoritative grammar for my remarks or > you just ignore > what I type and > keep on rambling in the dark asking completely irrelevant questions in the wrong direction> ? I mean, I’ll gladly just ignore people’s posts if that’s the kind of forum that you want to have here. I was offering an answer that was coherent and persuasive, and > I was rebuffed > for it. Of course my reaction was harsh, but it was based on > how people responded to me> .
I must say, amice Israeliane, that certainly I do agree with your arguments, and the logic you have presented with regard to this discussion.
But I take issue with the tone with which you express yourself here, as do perhaps some others here. I know that at least three of us are teachers, yourself and myself included. And you know that there are sometimes a few slow students who have trouble grasping the basics — perhaps that is what you see in us, which is why you are frustrated with us. But just as you would be with your students, I ask you to be more patient in your treatment of us. You say that your arguments have been practically air-tight in their reasoning and explanation — but if they are inherently so logical, why do we (who have a certain amount of good education ourselves on grammatical topics) feel reluctant to accept them out-of-hand, and merely trust your authority alone?
And this comes back to how we have interpreted your tone — whether you meant it or not, phrases like the ones I placed in bold above sound as if you are condescending to us — as if we were foolish middle schoolers not even worth your time. Also, some of these comments make you sound defensive, and overly self-confident, in a way that only shrouds your logical, clear statements in a haze of emotions that don’t interest us so much.
Someone in this thread cited a thread from a year ago this week in which I participated — and when I read my comments now, I blush! how just a year ago, I sounded so much harsher, egotistical, and uncompromising! I feel embarrassed. But at the time, I didn’t realize it — nor that my attitude just put off my colleagues and made them feel attacked, and less willing to see whatever logic or force of reason I may have had to offer.
Have I matured? I hope so, but it’s always possible for me to recede back into that kind of flaming rhetoric again — and when I do, amici, I trust you will kindly redirect me to this post of mine here, and knock some sense into me about my manner of expression. 
So this is why we have reacted badly. As I said, when I look beyond the emotions you have expressed to us in your posts (with very colorful and well-written language, it should be said), I see the reason of your arguments. But as far as I feel about these things, exasperation and impatience do not make me feel any more willing to listen.
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Salve, Alati! Quid novi?
I agree with you, amice, and with the others who have rightly insisted that the predicate “who he is” acts as an indeclinable object unto itself, and that my own explanation — altho’ I believe it fully to be correct, and demonstrable through analogy with other languages and with older forms of English — is unnecessarily obtuse. And yes, Alati, I do argue that my two examples, “They saw who was fortold,” and “They saw him who was fortold,” are semantically the same thing.