One thing I must often remind myself is that language is far more ancient than the grammarian. I do my share of wincing and cringing, but who am I to tell a native speaker that he is wrong? “Sir, this language which was passed down to you by your parents, with which you communicate daily without misunderstanding, is fundamentally flawed because it violates a rule penned by a prominent professor.”
To us, language is a science. To the world at large, it is a tool. The masses will propel the evolution of all natural languages, while the grammarians of every generation watch in horror.
After all, all living languages are just horrible degenerations of ancient ones.
Yes, grammar CAN also make you free. Ita, grammatica facit liber, vel ea te sic facere potest.
Concerning “they, them, their. 1. One, anyone, everybody, nobody, &c., followed by their &c.” (opus citatum, p.648), Fowler is against the use of their and disapproves of the OED’s weak stance on the matter (where it says just “not favoured by grammarians”). Reading between the lines, he sort of says that women should soak it up, and “he”, “him”, “his” is better if referring to bother sexes.
Usum renuit. Sententiarum ad genus pertinentium in tractando, Fowler omnes pronomina masculina communia tenere admonet et is in hâc re remissionem OED dictionarii plorat.
You’re moving up your revolutionary gears there, Sceptra Tenens. Mechanismos velocitatis revolutionarios adjicis, Sceptra Tenens.
I find myself going back and forth. “They” has a good foothold in the US, but when the fancy takes me I make a conscious effort to use “he”.
Is there any modern language, save English (but English/outside of English/except for English/&c), that uses plural pronouns and verbs for the third-person singular? It will certainly be standard within the next century, and I have to admit that I do like languages to develop unusual quirks.
You’re moving up your revolutionary gears there, Sceptra Tenens.
Yes, but that’s fundamentally different in that in English “they” can refer to an individual, which is what I was referring to in my poorly-worded way.