Sure you can.ThomasGR wrote:
Love is such a strange concept one never knows if it’s there, and can never be sure for that.
Romantic love does not fade away to nothing but becomes more stable. If by romantic love you mean the giddy,"she can't do any wrong" kind of love then you are right. But even seniors have romantic love for their marriage partner of 30 years, but this love has become more selfless and completeThomasGR wrote: Those kinds of Feelings are really disturbing and often confusing. Anyway, romantic love always fades away.
ThomasGR wrote: After many years of marriage, what remains left is solicitude for each other, a concern that isn’t different than between members of the same family, like brother and sister, or mother and son. And years later, even those feelings are absent.
ThomasGR wrote: We see that in old couples, who after so many years have nothing important to share with each other. What they have to discuss has been discussed for so many times, nothing new to add. Romantic love has vanished; an imprisonment forced by marriage laws took its place. Daily quarrels became a routine.
ThomasGR wrote:
Here’s the importance of having children in a family. The concern for a child’s progress can dilute the aggravation a couple would otherwise accumulate.
ThomasGR wrote: Forgetting and forgiving happen anyway, even in child-less couples, but I don’t think these works always properly. Some scars always remain left and other wounds never heal, as they should. Here’s where a child in a family works as a catalyst that helps to overcome such straits. Both parent’s love and care for their child work as a glue that binds the couple together. The child’s progress will give enormous happiness to that couple. Daily life’s routine is rare.
ThomasGR wrote:All of you who voted the first option, are either too young and do trust what they told you about love and romance, or too idealistic and live in a fancy world full with flowers and happy ends. I hope no one comes across your ways to disappoint you. Love is not walking hand by hand in a beach watching the sunset... It has it's up and down and for most people, that’s the striking majority of the people and this includes me of course, it demands great amount of energy to deal with, and without any good catalyst (be it the kids or the surrounded society (friends etc.)) it's impossible to handle and keep sustained. Otherwise we wouldn't be humans but angels.
ThomasGR wrote:Here’s the importance of having children in a family. The concern for a child’s progress can dilute the aggravation a couple would otherwise accumulate. Forgetting and forgiving happen anyway, even in child-less couples, but I don’t think these works always properly. Some scars always remain left and other wounds never heal, as they should. Here’s where a child in a family works as a catalyst that helps to overcome such straits. Both parent’s love and care for their child work as a glue that binds the couple together. The child’s progress will give enormous happiness to that couple. Daily life’s routine is rare.
ThomasGR wrote:Please, for God’s sake. Why cannot I make generalizations?
There people who never marry and live at the top of mountains, without any intercourse with other people, and there are people who can be happy living only among people and have all kinds of relations. Am I so wrong saying that the second case represent the majority? That a human never is really happy, even if he’s swearing he is, if he does not speak with other people other than “Good morning”? (Whatever, who’s understanding, has understood)
Geoff wrote:BTW- Why is Everyone Always making generalizations, don't they know that All generalizations are Always Wrong? lol
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